Do you really need that expensive car to sexually attract or to feel successful? Success needs no such symbols and there are no proxies in attraction!
IMO, too many people spend too much energy in the rat race "wars" and have little energy left for making love! Which kinda misses the point or defeats the purpose!!!
An attractive personality (male/female) IMO does not need material status symbols in order to attract. So instead of working your .. off to make the money to buy material status symbols, develop your intellect and your interests, IMO